Realty Executives Arizona Territory

Jesse Lapham

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Jesse Lapham

ABR, RENE, AHWD

Realty Executives Arizona Territory

I Got a Phone Call Today: Should You Wait to Buy a Home?

 I got a phone call today from a buyer I’ve been working with.

They’ve been taking their time, watching the market, looking at homes, and trying to decide when the timing feels right.

After hearing the Federal Reserve had left interest rates unchanged, they called with a simple question.

“The Fed didn’t lower interest rates. Should I reconsider buying right now?”

It was a fair question

But instead of talking about the Federal Reserve, mortgage rates, or what an economist thinks might happen six months from now, I asked a different question.

“What changed for you today?”

There was a brief pause.

Not because it was a trick question.

Because it shifted the conversation back to what really matters.

Did your job change?

Did your income change?

Did your savings suddenly disappear?

Did your reason for wanting to own a home change?

Or did today’s announcement simply make you pause because of a headline?

Interest rates matter. They affect what a home costs each month and what comfortably fits into your budget. They deserve to be part of the conversation—but they shouldn’t be the entire conversation.

That’s why I think many people may be asking the wrong question.

People often ask me:

“Is now a good time to buy?”

Like so many questions in real estate, my answer usually begins the same way.

It depends.

I know that’s not the simple answer people are hoping for.

Most people want someone to tell them exactly what to do.

Buy now.

Wait six months.

Rates are coming down.

Prices are going up.

The truth is, none of us knows what the market will do next.

And even if we did, the answer still wouldn’t be the same for every buyer.

That’s why I think there’s a better question.

Instead of asking:

“Is now a good time to buy?”

Ask:

“Is now the right time for me to buy?”

Those are two very different conversations.

One is about trying to predict the market.

The other is about understanding your life.

And that means we have to start with your situation.

Before we ever look at homes, I want to understand you.

What is your current living situation?

Are you tired of renting?

Do you need more space?

Are you planning to stay in Tucson for several years?

Have you looked into what buying might actually cost?

You might be surprised.

One of the biggest misconceptions I hear is that buyers need a 20% down payment or tens of thousands of dollars saved before they can even think about buying.

Sometimes that’s true.

Often, it isn’t.

That’s exactly why I encourage buyers to talk with a trusted lender early in the process.

Before deciding buying isn’t possible, let’s find out what your options actually are.

I’ve had conversations with people who thought they were years away from buying, only to discover they were much closer than they realized.

I’ve also had conversations where the best advice was to wait.

Both conversations were worthwhile because they were based on facts instead of assumptions.

From there, we can talk about what monthly payment feels comfortable—not simply what you might qualify for.

Because before anyone writes an offer, the math has to math.

Not just the payment.

The timeline.

The maintenance.

The repairs.

And how that home fits into your life.

Sometimes the timeline changes everything.

One of the first questions I ask buyers is:

“How long do you think you’ll own this home?”

That answer changes more than most people realize.

Not long ago, I worked with a young couple buying their first home.

They expected to own it for only about two years.

That immediately changed how we approached the transaction.

The home checked a lot of boxes—but it wasn’t perfect.

The roof was nearing the end of its life.

The air conditioner needed attention.

The pool also needed repairs.

Because they planned on owning the home for such a short period, we couldn’t think only about getting them to the closing table.

We also had to think about what could happen when it was time for them to sell.

So we negotiated.

We talked through which repairs made sense to request, which expenses could be addressed before closing, and which responsibilities my buyers were comfortable taking on themselves.

Because they were financing the purchase, we also had to work within the rules that come with a mortgage transaction.

Was it a perfect house?

No.

Very few are.

Was it a perfect transaction?

No.

Those are pretty rare, too.

But my buyers understood exactly what they were buying.

They understood the home’s condition, the trade-offs, and why we negotiated the way we did.

Most importantly, they were comfortable with the decision they made.

To me, that’s a successful transaction.

Waiting is also a decision.

I completely understand why buyers say they’re waiting for lower interest rates.

Maybe that’s the right decision.

But waiting is a decision, too.

And every decision has trade-offs.

Historically, lower mortgage rates often bring more buyers back into the market.

More buyers can mean more competition, and more competition often means fewer opportunities to negotiate.

Could rates come down?

Absolutely.

Could waiting work out in your favor?

Absolutely.

Could you also find yourself competing with more buyers for the same home?

That’s possible, too.

I’m not saying that to convince anyone to buy today.

I’m saying it because waiting isn’t neutral.

It has potential benefits, costs, and trade-offs, just like buying does.

This is where the right team matters.

A trusted lender helps you understand financing.

Loan programs.

Monthly payments.

Down payment options.

Closing costs.

My job is different, and honestly, it’s the part I enjoy most.

My job is to ask questions.

To listen.

To explain the process.

To help you understand the trade-offs.

To negotiate on your behalf.

And sometimes, my job is to tell you that now isn’t the right time to buy.

I’m completely okay with that.

Because my goal isn’t to convince someone to buy a house.

My goal is to help them make a decision they’ll still feel good about years from now.

That is also how I measure success.

For me, success has never been about the number of transactions I’ve closed.

Success is knowing my clients felt heard, understood, and included in every decision.

It is knowing they were educated rather than pressured.

It is knowing they understood the options in front of them and felt confident in the decision they made.

When a past client trusts me enough to introduce me to a friend, family member, or coworker, that’s one of the greatest compliments I can receive.

Not because I sold them a house.

Because I earned their trust.

Before we hung up, we came back to where the conversation started.

We talked about interest rates.

We talked about monthly payments.

We talked about affordability.

We talked about what today’s announcement might mean.

But throughout the entire conversation, we kept coming back to one simple question.

“What changed for you today?”

Did today’s news actually change your world?

Did it change your goals?

Did it change what you can comfortably afford?

Or did it simply make you pause because of a headline?

If something really changed, then let’s dig a little deeper.

Let’s talk about it.

Let’s understand why.

If nothing changed, then maybe today’s announcement is simply one more piece of information—not the decision itself.

Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions many people will ever make.

It deserves more than a headline.

It deserves an honest conversation about your goals, your finances, your timeline, and your options.

That’s the conversation I had today.

And it’s the conversation I’m always happy to have.

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